If anyone does not hate his own father.
And wife and children.
And his mother.
And brothers and sisters and children.

And even his own life.
He cannot be my disciple.
Who ever does not bear his own cross in this life.
Cannot be my disciple.

We just have to put Christ first.
Not wealth or reputation.
It’s for him that we must thirst.
And resist life’s endless temptation.

He must come first.
Because he will be there at the last.

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We must put Christ first
He must come before this life
He’s our future life

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See Luke 14 : 25 -33